Non exsistent sex drive while pregnant

Alright ladies, I've been with my wonderful fiancé for 3 years now and I am 14 weeks pregnant with our first child.

Ever since the day I found out I was pregnant I literally can't stand him touching me. We used to touch and play and have sex whenever we wanted basically, but now I can't even stand him to snuggle me when we are in bed. I feel paranoid that whenever he's touching me or getting close that he's gonna get turned on and want to have sex but I just can't do it.

You see, when we try to have sex it hurts so bad that I want to cry, it feels like he's stabbing my cervix. He doesn't even have to be in past the head and I wanna cry and scream.. and if he's going down on me or fingering me, just to have him touch my clit is painful because it's so sensitive. My nipples are sore and overall I just don't want to be touched. I can't give him head because I gag and throw up..

Now he feels the need to jack off multiple times a day because I can't satisfy him. What do I do? 😭 I don't want him to hate me because i constantly say not today babe.

What can I do to help him or help me get in the mood? Is there a medical condition preventing me from wanting to have sex? Has anyone else experienced this?

Thank you for taking the time to read this!