Hey guys so I just had my beautiful baby girl July 17 and every since I've had her it just seems like things still aren't ever going to get right between me and my daughter father during my pregnancy her dad was telling me to sell her kill her and etc even tho he said he'll never be a dead beat dad so now that she's here he's been being very inconsistent he missed her being born but came to the hospital afterwards and stayed for 10 minutes and left didn't sign the birth certificate or anything. Now that we are home he has only came to see her twice and she's 3 weeks old. The first time he came he only stayed maybe 15 minutes the second time he came over was only to pick up something and only stayed for 3!minutes to see her he told me he was gonna come back to stay the night to help me with her but turns out he went to the club to go hang with a stripper and on Saturday I find out he's with his other 2 kids his sister and his baby mom having " family time " but didn't even bother to include our daughter....I'm just so confused i really don't know what to do at this point. Last week he lied and said he was out of town because he knew I was gonna ask him to come see her. You guys please give me some advice on what I should do at this point. I feel bad about thinking about putting him on child support because I really rather have him to spend time with her vs forcing him to give me child support money