Me and my girlfriend (non-op transwoman) started having PinV sex. Yay! It's been great but there has been the frustrating and sort of funny issue of my hymen. First time she fingered me it hurt and I bled a tiny bit, I thought that was it... Fingering was fine after that. First time we had sex though, it hurt yet again and I bled a tiny bit. We were sure that was it BUT the second time we had sex I bled a lot more. First two bleedings had been dots of blood. This time it was on the condom and mixed with lube when I was cleaning up. I freaked out and cried. Has anyone else had this problem? Should I be fine the next time I have sex?