Unsympathetic husband

His response when I ask for him to be more sympathetic with this pregnancy. I swear sometimes I feel like I'm married to an emotionless robot. With my first pregnancy we fought a lot because he would not help me with anything . When I was to big and pained to even walk if I'd drop something and ask for help he would get upset and tell me to do it myself. He could be hearing me puking my guts out and not even ask if I'm ok or need water or anything. I really makes me feel like he doesn't love me. Now we have an 8 month old and I know if he continues the same way he was last time we will have serious problems. Are all men this way ?!?!!