very annoyed

my child is not a very healthy kid. he has issues with his lungs. before anyone says anything ridiculous, yes he was a term baby. he didn't have issues at birth that would prepared us for possible problems. he nearly died in February bc he could not breathe. back to why I'm annoyed. people in his life that should know better keep telling me that I'm so lucky to have a healthy baby. they always tell me that bc he is a good weight that he is so healthy. ugh.