Working mom ttc #2

Between work and making supper and laundry and bath time and bed time I don't know how I will find the energy to BD .. As much as my DH does help, and he really is amazing. I find that I don't have time to do everything. I have very irregular AF and right now on day 61! The longest cycle yet! I've been trying to lose weight hoping to up my chances of baby but I'm finding it impossible to eat healthier when my 3 yr old won't eat vegetables and I have little time to fuss around with separate meals.