Personal advice needed

I love how everyone is so responsive here. I'm in a situation now. Its been 2 1/2 yrs since we married. Our family stays in India and we both live in Chicago. From the time we married its been tough financially mostly b'coz of my in-laws demands and my husbands naivety. His sister and brother are good for nothing either. They keep asking him for many things. Also one day my SIL asked my hubby to share his hard earned property with his brother as he doesn't save and is without any settlement for him to get married. My husband ( instead of sharing our property) wants to give him money for down payement so that he can buy a house which his brother doesn't like for the reason that he'll have to pay the loan for his house.How ridiculous is that!! I always wanted to discuss this topic but I'm afraid I might hurt my husband or he might take me wrong or I'm coward I don't know. Now that we are 2 weeks away from having our first kid, this topic has surfaced. Should I talk to my husband about how I feel? My parents came to visit us and help us during childbirth. Will this change his way of thinking towards my parents? And me? I'm really tensed.