He slapped me during sex should I be concerned?

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we were having some great sex yesterday and it involved some light choking which I'm totally okay with. Then he went to choke me but he slapped me first and I was shook af. Then he did it a couple more times and I didn't hate it. So I'm not sure if I should tell him to stop because I dont hate it but I'm not exactly sure if I like it either. pls help. Do any of you SO do this and do you like it?                                                                             BTW :  It wasn't hard it was just a couple little ones like. some of you are thinking he pimp  slapped me of something

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Talk to him about it. Communication is the best thing for your relationship

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My husband will never put his hands on me like that. That being said, if you like it, that's all on you. But I also don't get turned on by what I consider abusive behavior. You need to set your limits. If he doesn't listen, there's a problem.

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I love being slapped. But it isn't for everyone. I would talk to him about it and tell him maybe you want to start off slow or do it every once in awhile

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I love being slapped during sex lol not to hard but you know enough to be like whoa lol 😂 I'm weird

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I'd flip my shit if my man slapped me in bed lol hell naw. if you don't like it say don't do that again, you got to be clear what you do and don't like.

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You either want him to or you don't. Seems simple to me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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If you continue to let it happen it might only get worse. My so started doing it then he let it take control and it got 100 times worse. Led to choking until I passed out and other things I hate talking about

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I love it. But we actually talked about it beforehand, I basically asked him to do it cause I was curious and ended up enjoying it 😂 he was iffy at first, but I begged him in the moment and he couldn't say no to trying it! Of course, we have safe words and he knows my limits, he would never inflict pain that I don't like or that he thinks is too much either, because hes so afraid of hurting me!  If I tell him harder, sometimes he refuses because he feels like it's too hard 😂 communication is key!

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You need to let him know what you are or are not comfortable with. communication is key.

He slapped me during sex should I be concerned?

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