Abortion?

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Has anyone ever had an abortion?
I'm 10 weeks and have a very unwell child. I live in hospital with him and he's constantly having surgery, next big op is next week and he's fed via tube etc. So it's all very hard work. I wouldn't say I'm in a happy nor healthy relationship and when we are out of hospital I'm looking into moving close to family and leaving his dad. However I recently found out I'm pregnant and as chuffed as I was I don't think it'll be fair to bring another child into a broken family who will spend all its time with grandparents as I'll always want to be my sons side in hospital. 
Please no nasty comments or judgment just scroll past. 
But has anyone been through it? What's it like? Did you regret it?

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I've never had an abortion but this is one very good reason to consider it. I feel like you'll feel badly about any decision you make whether it be to keep the baby, adoption, or abortion.

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I realized after my comment, it's something I really shouldn't comment on as being adopted I feel too strongly about it. It is your body and your choice and I hope that whatever you decide you are the one that knows yourself and what you can and cannot handle 💙I apologize

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Please do whatever you feel is best for you and your current son. This is a difficult situation but never let anyone make you feel bad about a decision you have made or will make. I truly dont think many women can put themselves in your shoes and truly judge what they will do.  I could never understand he pain you must be going through unless I was personally going through the same thing.

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I think adoption would be more painful then aborting now .. I don't know about your sons condition and if it's terminal .. but if you know the other child will suffer in what ever way for u having to care for your son then yh I understand where your coming from .. but on the other hand when the baby is here you will naturally divide your time between both children .. we always find a way and strength to get through these times .. good luck with you're decision .. and if youre partner is that bad id get rid of him now .. why wait .. it will be one less thing to stress u out .. then u can concentrate on your son and decision xx

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I personally would not have an abortion unless for medical reasons BUT your body is not my body. If you feel abortion would be best then do it hun. Only you know what is best for your family and yourself. If that's abortion then do it. You can always pick adoption. I have a sick kiddo like you, and am pregnant but am choosing adoption. It'll be okay momma

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I believe there's an abortion support section on here, if you haven't already posted there. I believe in this group, you may not only get support. Best of luck to you! I can't imagine this decision or your life right now is easy. 💓

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I had one and at the time it was the best decision. I was in no place to have a child, it was extremely painful but they give you meds to help with the pain, it's a traumatic experience but I don't regret it. I would never bring something into this world if I couldn't give it the proper life. I wish you luck💕

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This is really hard to post but hey if you’re venting I will too. I have had an abortion, and I was 13 weeks .. I know what people are thinking “how could she” “the baby is developed” I totally understood everything. I got an abortion because I was in a toxic relationship and I was on BC I took medication and it messed with my body and resulted into pregnancy. I didn’t even have symptoms until I went to a doctor because I had bad heart burn (didn’t know that was a pregnancy sign) and she told me I was 11 weeks pregnant. I couldn’t tell my parents because they’d tell me how bad of a mother i’d be since at the time I was 20. Let me tell u something do whatever your heart tells you. NO ONE can tell you what the best thing is for YOU. I regret my abortion but I also don’t know where I’d be today. (College Graduate now). Goodluck❤️

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I've had one when I was 16 (23 now) and I still regret it.

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I'm adopted and have an open adoption with my birth parents and it's amazing. My parents tried for 12 years to have kids before they got me. For someone else this pregnancy could be the biggest blessing of their lives, so just something to consider!

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