Tomorrow I have an appointment with my doctor to tell her what kind of birth control I have decided on. But I haven't.

I was thinking of getting the copper iud but my insurance only pays for one in a lifetime so I'd rather get that iud after my second kid.

Honestly I'm scared to get any other form of birth control because of the ugly side effects like weight gain and acne and just having those extra hormones in general :(

So now I'm leaning more towards just using condoms, spermicide, and plan b in case of an emergency.

Any suggestions?