Your husband doesn't want to know the sex of the baby cuz he wants to be surprised. But you desperately want to know the sex. Is it acceptable for him to stop you from knowing?

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Voted yes because as with anything it's a joint decision. You both need to come to an agreement on what you are going to do.

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No, but you shouldn't tell others who may tell him, and if you buy gender specific things you should put them where he won't see them. I really think a mutual decision is better, though, and compromise is key.

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He can wait and you can find out. Idk why it's that big of a deal for many reasons. It's a very simple solution to this.

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Let me ask you this, is it right for you to stop him from having it be a surprise? It goes both ways

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What does him knowing and you knowing have to do with each other?

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is there a reason he wants to wait?  have you heard him out?  has he listened to your opinion?  would he be upset if you chose to know?

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You find out and don't tell him?

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cancel my vote! i meant to say no.

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Same situation going on here, we have our appointment next week. Originally it was my idea to wait, but now I don't want to and he still does. I don't want to be the only one to find out as I can't keep
Anything from him, so that just won't work for us. I just don't know what we are going to do yet.

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Don't let him stop you from finding out if you really wanna know .... 38w6d and I know the sex of our little bean but my So wont be finding out the sex till he's born .... this is my first child and his third so I am little more anxious than he is.

Your husband doesn't want to know the sex of the baby cuz he wants to be surprised. But you desperately want to know the sex. Is it acceptable for him to stop you from knowing?

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