Why is this???

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The Single parent struggle

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I'm guessing you've never heard of a deadbeat mother and a single father?

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HA! my ex has alienated me from my children, will not allow me to see them or talk to them even moved and the courts dont give a shit. they wont help me, they can care less... shes alway bragging about "how she does it all om her own!" all while cashing my 800 dollar a month child support checks, driving a nicer car then me, has a nicer house, and is still asking for more... oh yeah, did i mention she doesnt have a job, is on a faulty disability claim, and going to school full time..... yeah single mothers are not single mothers.... theyre a parent who is single. HUGE DIFFERENCE. ima get flack im sure, however our family court system will even side with women even if theyre druggies (unless its broadcasted then something will happen). I believe in 50/50 custody, as that child wouldnt be here with out me! her excuse.... i carried it for 9 months.... seriously? while you decided to quit your job, get lazy, fat, and bitch all time, while sneaking alcoholic drinks (while i was at work making sure we had food and a house) and still say how you did all the  fucking work! some women need to truely  learn what it would be like to be the man having your children taken from you, all your checks gone, and then her still saying how she is foing it on her own. give me a fucking brake.........

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Because society holds women accountable for their actions. How many times have we heard "boys will be boys"?

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Society allows it! There's so many single mothers and while I definitely have respect for them there are people who look down on those women. But then a story about a single dad circulates the internet and everyone treats him like a hero for doing what he's supposed to do. It's amazing raising a kid on your own regardless of if you're the mom or dad or other family member. Sorry I kinda went off topic 😬

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It's super annoying. 
I fully support men who want to sign away the rights to children they don't want. 
But if a woman has an unplanned pregnancy, and abortion or adoption isn't for them, then they're stuck with the kid. It's super uncommon for women to just leave a man and their kid. I do not support men who just leave and don't sign away their rights.

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My fiancées ex just dropped her kids off one day for her mom to watch them for "a couple hours" and never came back. So tell me more about how it's just men who leave 🤔

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Stupid double standards.

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Many times it's because it's what we allow

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Yes but how many times are Men's wallets completely raped with child support? Draining them of nearly everything even when they see their child regularly? How many times do women gain sole custody because she's the mother? Women get a lot of slack too. Let's not forget.

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That can go vice versa..... There are plenty of men playing  the mom roll too.

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