Ok so I've been with my bf for almost a year and we live together. We have sex pretty regularly but when I work a long shift or have been busy all day I'll see that he's been watching porn. Like a lot. He has one of those virtual reality (VR) headsets that he watches porn on too! Before we got together he used to go to strip clubs and whatever. He has no problem not going anymore unless I go with him (we haven't yet) but do I have any right to get mad about porn?? It doesn't seem too obsessive but I don't know how to talk to him about it without seeming upset :(((