Domination

I'm a really powerful woman. I'm in my mid 20s and run my own successful business. I'm an expert in my field because I've spent so much time and energy on my career. I'm a workaholic, extremely independent and respected in my field.

Because of how much responsibility I assume in my day to day life, I love being dominated in the bedroom. It's the only place that I don't want to make all of the decisions.

However, I'm not as adventurous as some women and do have boundaries. When men hear that I like to be dominated, they tend to like it, but I've been concerned lately that if I tell them to stop before something I'm not comfortable with happens, that they'll think my enjoyment of being dominated is a cop out or excuse for "not wanting to do the work".

How do I get around this without feeling obligated to do things sexually that I don't want to do?