How often do you and your S/O have sex, and how long have you been together?

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I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years and we used to have sex almost everyday.. now it's only like 1-3 times a week and I almost always have to initiate. Ugh so frustrating. I was just curious what's "normal" in a relationship.

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We've been together a little over a year and we used to have sex everyday. Now, I'd say we have sex 3-4 times a week (every other day) and we both initiate it!

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Been together for 6 years and we have been married for 4. We only have sex 3-4 times a week when it used to be almost everyday but we both work full time and our schedules are conflicting.

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3 times a week... together for 10 yrs married for 4

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I don't even get it that much. If I'm lucky it's 1 a week. 3 1/2 years in

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We've been together 10 years, we seem to have the most sex during O week and then about once a week after.

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We've been together 3 years. Usually we have sex 3-4 times a week at least (except when I would be on my period, then just like 1-2 since mine only lasted 2-3 days.) but now we have sex anywhere between 1-3 times a week bc of a lot of other things. We both work two jobs & have completely different schedules right now. We're also in the process of moving and I'm pregnant. The only time we really actually see each other is Saturday night. But sometimes in the middle of the night we will wake up for a quickie lol. But soon everything will calm down & im sure things will get a little more normal😊

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About 5 times a week and we have been together for 3.5 years and married for almost 4 months

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What's "normal" is different, though. Even if most people have more or less, whatever works for your relationship is your normal and is healthy. Until it starts causing problems which it sounds like it is affecting you and your relationship. Maybe you should talk to your significant other about it and express your concerns.

How often do you and your S/O have sex, and how long have you been together?

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