I don't know if I wanna punch someone or cry... my mom decided with this pregnancy (my sister has 4 kids, this is my first baby) that she didn't want to know the gender until the baby was born just for fun & to make it more of a surprise for her. I respected those wishes & when my boyfriend & I found out the gender I made a mass post saying that my mom didn't want to know so if any of my friends did want to know to message me & I would tell them. Well one of my moms friends flat out went to my mother after I messaged her & told her what the gender of the baby was!!! Im just so mad because she couldn't respect my wishes or my mothers & it wasn't her damn right to tell anyone! 😔