I feel so huge and I am tired of hearing about it

I was plus size before I got pregnant. I was in the process of losing weight and dropped 20lbs and ended up getting pregnant right after. I have heard comments like are you sure there is one or is that even healthy for you and baby. I feel like crying some days. The first picture is 4 weeks the day I found out and the next one is at 13 weeks and 5 days. I am currently 14 weeks and 1 day.