UGH BARTHOLIN GLAND CYSTS 😲😢👎

Le sigh, yesterday was perfection. My period showed up which isn't completely terrible I've been dealing with what feels like real hysteria around my cycle and have been taking black cohosh so my period is like the best period I've had in years BUT I woke up with the Bartholin Gland SUPER SWOLLEN this morning. I have dealt with this twice before first time it abscessed and is still the worst pain I have ever experienced on top of which, the wound closed up and I had to have the same drainage procedure done twice in the same week.2nd was able to get a referral to a specialist and she did a marsupialization and because I heal like wolverine it closed completely shut. I really don't want to deal with this again and surgery is the only thing that could fix it and even then it could still come back 😢😭😢😭😢 It will also put my sex life on hold for 6 to 8 weeks.....can I go back to yesterday, it was blissful.