How did you stop worrying about miscarriage after a chemical?

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How did you stop worrying about miscarriage after a chemical? 
Is it more likely I'll have another chemical if I've had one first?

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Working on this myself. Had a chemical last cycle and a pregnancy again. I am over analyzing every little thing. 
Perhaps this bean deserves love regardles of how long we get to be together. Trying to manifest positivity is hard.

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I just had my first miscarriage last month, it was not a chemical but no matter what type of loss it is it still sucks. We just found out that I'm already pregnant again, I kept focus on the aspect of being able to try again and my hubby and I definitely focused more on enjoying each other than actually trying to make a baby. I've been more optimistic this month than my husband has, and I decided that if 9 months from now God blesses me with a child I want so much, that I don't want to be angry with myself for not enjoying the first few weeks of pregnancy. I will be devastated if it doesn't work out and ends in a miscarriage again but your odds of having a healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage greatly increase after your first miscarriage. I wish you luck in finding peace with your pain, and I hope you too can find the light that you deserve! Sticky baby dust to you!!

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Thank you and good luck too you too. I'm not even 4 weeks yet but I'm trying not to stress. 
But it's so hard and I'm terrified at how upset my partner is going to be if I miscarry again.

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I've had 3 miscarriages with the last one being a chemical in April and honestly with this current pregnancy I've been screwed over a few times by different doctors. I had an appointment at 8w3d and I was told that my insurance needed for me to have a referral to get seen for pregnancy because I was going to them for about a year for infertility. so at that appointment my doctor's assistant told me that they would do a ultrasound to make sure the baby is okay and so I got prepared for the ultrasound and then my doctor came in and told me that he wasn't going to do an ultrasound that he was just going to send me to the hospital to do a HCG qualitive. so I decided to go to my regular doctor to get a pregnancy test done so I could get a referral to the hospital on post because we're military. so at 10 weeks I had my first appointment at the hospital and it was just all for a jail information and stuff and they told me that they don't do ultrasounds until the second trimester so at this point I have not heard my baby's heartbeat and I have not had an ultrasound so I had no idea what was going on. she told me about a pregnancy center that I could go to that does free ultrasounds during the first trimester and so that following Monday I called them to see if I can get an ultrasound done and they told me that I needed a referral or a proof of pregnancy and I told them that I got referred from my hospital and have my lab results and they told me I need to come and fill out paperwork and that I would get a ultrasound that following week and so she asked me how far along I would be then and I told her I'd be a little over 12 weeks and she was like oh well nevermind we won't be able to take you because you'll be too close to the second trimester. I will be 13 weeks on Wednesday and I ordered a at home Doppler that got here Friday and I was immediately able to find the heartbeat and honestly that's when I was finally able to stop worrying about having a miscarriage

How did you stop worrying about miscarriage after a chemical?

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