I always thought having kids was a beautiful experience for every woman, sadly not for me. I gave birth last month, I thought baby daddy was going to excited and happy but not one tone of excitement or a shed of tear of happiness. he was very normal which scared me. instead he became distant with me and took care of our baby but he wasn't even that loving with her. I noticed this and told him I felt that he wasn't happy and he wasn't showering me with affection that I needed. he ignores it and that got us into a huge fight once we got home from the hospital. originally he planned a trip to Columbia but when he found out that baby was going to be born close to the trip date he decided to stay to take care of me and baby and that all changed when we started to fight. baby was less than a week old when he left for his vacation .I felt abandoned and he didn't seem to understand that. for the past two weeks I was taking my little one by myself to all her doctors appointment and taking care of her. when he came back from the trip, he came back with a list of girls. texting him. his phone was full of selfies of girls who used his phone for. amazingly he doesn't see anything wrong with that. one girl texted him and I knew who she was, she was a girl he had an interest on before. we got together. I am a very jealous person and he knows that and before I gave birth he promised me to not get me jealous and. cut contacts withhold because it wasn't worth it. now because we were having problems, he didn't care. I told him it was either me or her, he didn't want together rid of her so it was obvious who he prefer do kicked him out. he wanted Tobe part of babies life but I denied him because we are not married and he didn't care about her why would he care now? all of this happened less than baby's one month and it's shame, did I do something right for kicking him out of our lives?