Sex is boring lately

Nicole

Me and my SO have been together for almost 4 years. Sex has been not very good for about a year. He doesn't seem interested in spicing things up a bit. He won't use toys, do anal or anything new. I'm getting bored and honestly it is getting hard for me to have a orgasm when we have sex (which isn't very often) we use to have sex every day now I'm lucky to get it once or twice a month. I need some ideas on how to make him want to try new things