so i'm waiting until marriage for sex and i was wondering, where do people usually spend the wedding night? if i have a venue that doesn't offer overnight accommodations, do i just go back home for the night? or should i book a hotel room for the nights leadig up until the honeymoon? i'm planning on leaving for the honeymoon the day after the wedding and i feel like getting a hotel room for just a night will be awfully suspicious and people might get an idea of what we're up to lol. what do most people doing for their wedding night? i've never thought of this until now