Worst Doctors Appointment Ever

This is long. But I have to vent and I really need help, so bare with me.

I went into my General Care doctor today after I had a car accident last week to follow up about that, discuss my general health (shortness of breath, extreme nausea, low BP and headaches) and my severe anxiety. My workplace has asked that I go ahead and file short term disability because since the car accident I have been unable to work because of the three issues combined. I assumed that since the three issues were relatively independent of each other, I should see my general care doctor to fill out the paper work since she's sort of the "all around".

She first told me she thought I should only be seeing my OB for the sickness and car accident although I already followed up with him twice and he asked me to see her.

I bring up the short term disability.

Immediately she begins berating me and telling me that pregnancy is not a disability no matter the symptoms unless I have severe complications, nor are any of my other health problems. Keep in mind that I work at a construction company and in the job description form that comes with the short term disability paperwork it lists that I WILL be required to lift 50+ lbs and be exposed to dangerous fumes and chemicals, so in this situation *just* pregnancy actually would allow for short term disability. I have tried light duty and reduced hours at work and am completely unable to do it. I've "toughed it out" but the anxiety and sickness I feel leave me completely unable to do anything at all once I return home, and I barely even sleep anymore. I know this is hazardous to my baby and myself.

She is the only doctor that has EVER treated my anxiety and did so by prescribing me two antidepressants and Xanax, all of which I came off after becoming pregnant. She now claims she is unqualified to diagnose or treat anxiety and cannot fill out my paperwork for that. AFTER treating it for years. The anxiety is the main reason I'm unable to work, the other issues are the icing on the cake.

Now I'm feeling extremely guilty and like I'm being lazy or taking advantage of my job, despite the fact that I know I've fought tooth and nail for the past 30 weeks to continue working and it's now truly impossible to safely continue while keeping myself and baby safe and healthy.

My anxiety is exacerbated, I left her office in tears and she said she didn't even believe my OB would do it. That I needed to have started the process a long time ago and it's my fault.

She implied I'm unable to care for my own baby, and just made me feel like the total scum of the earth. I went for help with my anxiety and left so much worse off.

I do have an appointment with a therapist but it's weeks away.

I'm almost 30 weeks pregnant.

I don't know what to do.