Horrible sex.

Not sure what it is but after delivery, going 3 months PP and sex isn't the same. I am constantly dry and DH acts like he's a newbie all over again. I'm dry, he's dry and he thinks he can just go right at it. OUCH that hurts. I'm trying to explain to him we need lube or foreplay and it's like I'm speaking Alien language. Sex is not enjoyable anymore and I'm zero percent interested in sex. I get so irritated that I just want it to be over with. That sounds horrible. I can't tell him that he's awful at it (he wasn't before but is acting like he's a virgin all over again). I keep telling him my downstairs does not feel the same anymore. 😑🙁