Can't orgasm 💔

Tyrä

Can you ladies give me any tips on how I can be less scared to orgasm? I've tried everything! I don't really get off when I masturbate and when I do stuff with my boyfriend When I feel like I'm close it feels like I'm going to pee everywhere so I make him stop because I'm so scared that I'm about to pee all over him 😂😂😂 SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!