So when my boyfriend and I first started having sex, he was a virgin. I mean completely a virgin, no hand jobs, no bjs, hardly anything. (He has a stutter and I guess girls didn't like him cause he was insecure about it.) Anyways, he didn't know where to touch/ how to finger before he started going down on me, which wasn't until about a month or 2 ago. After that, our sex became mind blowing but it's definitely hard to make me cum during sex sometimes. However, because of the stimulaton, after he cums he can finger me and get me to cum in 5 min tops. He doesn't though most of the time. It's sort of upsetting because he's going through a police academy and I make sure he destresses at the end of the day when I get to see him. I did talk to him about it after being upset, he said it won't happen again. But sometimes I feel like (after talking to friends), that guys don't think about your needs and just focus on making themselves cum or maybe make you feel good but not get you to orgasm. Don't get me wrong, sex feels great in general, but would definitely be better if I got off legitimately.