tight vagina?

Question

my boyfriend and i had sex the other day after a couple of weeks and when he tried to put his dick in me he said i was tight like it was the first we ever had sex. then he continued to ask if i masturbated as if masturbating would make my vagina "less tight."  ive heard that it has to do with how aroused you are but is that normal for it to become that way?

Answer

masturbating can actually help with pelvic floor strength due to the muscles contacting during orgasm (and generally being used bc exercising a muscle will make it stronger). a stronger pelvic floor can make vagina SEEM tighter. masturbating can also "make you loose" bc youre exploring and becoming more comfortable with your sexuality and making you more relaxed during sex. so,  in summary, your boyfriend is an idiot and should not be relied on to give you pseudofacts about something he doesn't understand in the least. overall, its usually more about arousal and if you were virginally tight, he was not doing his job.

Answer

Yes, nothing can make your vagina "loose" only arousal can. Birth, fingers, dicks, none of that leaves you loose. If you are easily able to insert whatever into your vagina, it's because you have proper lubrication and arousal, which is exactly what you want to avoid injury.

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according to a guy that fingered me, i was super tight. but after awhile of being arroused, his dick literally went right in. i also wasn't nervous at all. so i think it has to do a lot with that.

Answer

That’s normal. And sometimes it does depend on how horny you are.

tight vagina?

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