Someone please explain to me why I am married and I get less sex than when I was single

Why didn't I just become a hoe? I could be having mind-blowing orgasms right now. instead I cook and clean after this man and we haven't had sex in a damn month. WTF? I don't know if its the ten year age difference but this shit sucks. Sucks!!! I need to be banged out. I am over her deprived.