Sooo I need to vent!

Ever since my baby boy was born my husband spends less and less time with me because he's always tired.

When I was pregnant I told my husband since I wasn't working I would get up in the middle of the night to take care of our son that way he can get his regular rest so that he isn't tired for work the next day..

Delivery day comes and boom! It all hit me hard and I realized I needed help at night because I was loosing so much sleep. My husband would help me every day for a week with our baby boy until he had To go to work. By then I had he hang of it and was able to let him sleep through the night.

Fast forward 1 month and my husband is always coming home tired from work. Don't get me wrong..He's a really hard worker but his job doesn't require manual labor. He comes home, plays with the baby, eats dinner, I or him put baby to sleep around 9...After baby Is asleep it's supposed to be our time together and he falls asleep on the couch. This is an everyday thing.

Fast forward another month...and my husband gets promoted to being a manager at his job and they're having "promotion" time which is when things at work get really busy. So he starts doing over time (he's been pulling 15hr shifts) I don't say anything because I know he's been working really hard and obviously will come home really tired because he's basically working all day non-stop.

So now promotion is over-He is only working 8 hrs shifts but somehow manages to still fall asleep when its our time together.

We recently got into a fight about it and he called me selfish bc I won't let him sleep, that what kind of person does that; getting upset at their husband bc they're tired..

And honestly I feel like he's right...I am being selfish for wanting him to stay up. But damn! I want some time with him also.

I have every reason to be tired also..I have to get up every night for the baby, I have to cook, clean, do laundry, and even through all that I still wanna make time for him.

And I wrong? Or am I really being selfish?...