I have been married for 10 years. We have a 15 month old and another due in November. My husband had been acting great and we planned the second pregnancy. Turns out it was an act so he could have a shot at a boy. After we found out it was a boy, naturally my husband decided to cheat on me when I was nearly 6 months pregnant, with some chick at work. He also took our daughter on the dates! He refused counseling and just won't try for his family and it's just turning ugly. I'm a SAHM mostly, and he expects me to leave "his money" alone. I have no family or friends and he won't let me see "his" family anymore. I've never been the vindictive type, but I'm going to take the SOB for every dime I can.