For STM did you ever worry that your second baby was not meeting her milestones so early on because your first was so alert and on track? My second baby is now a month and one week and is very different from my first. She sleeps a lot more than my first, and is not AS alert as my first was. My anxiety is through the roof constantly worrying that something is wrong. I try to get her to make eye contact and she will but easily gets distracted. Has this happened to any of you moms out there where you thought your baby was going to delay in milestones so early on? I can't help but be concerned. :(