I'm 24 and clueless about relationships, nervous about sex, and shy and hard time to communicate with guy/boyfriends.😣🤔

I am clueless about dating. I had dated a couple guy, but only thru emails/messenger in middle and high school. Now I'm actually dating as in going out with a guy and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I don't felt a connection with him, but he said he felt a connection with me. And when he text me, he's all sweet and all, but when we meet in person he basically talk about himself or talk about other things while I sit there and listen. But when he asked me a question and I'll answered back, and in the middle of telling him my opinion he'll interrupt me and went on about something else. And whenever he do text me, it would be like every 5 to 10 days. He'll ask how I was and I'll just reply "good, you" because I thought I'm boring and he probably don't care much about me. Even our relationship doesn't felt like a couple. What should I do?😐

I'm a virgin. I don't know what to do. He's experience, but I just don't think he know what he's doing. Eventhough, I'm a virgin, I'm a little kinky myself. I don't know if I should tell him that? Why I think that (about him bad in bed), its because he told me he once dated a girl. She give him a blowjob. He never text, nor talk to her every since. And I thought that was stingy of him not returning the favor back. 😡

I'm really shy when it comes to dating. I get nervous and start stuttering, I can't think staright, I can't look him in the eyes or I start mumbling. Not just him, but all men out there. 😣

Last but not least, connection. Is it wrong to go out with a guy who you don't felt a connection with? My theory is, probably he's not my type and I guess I'm just not trying hard enough to connect with him. Is that why? Should I just tell him no, or should I go ahead and try to aim for a relationship?😣

Please ladies, no bad comments! I'm sorry it's so long. Thank you!! 😊