Okay my boyfriends sister has been staying with us for about 2 months now . She's one of the nastiest creatures I've ever met in my life and she's 18 years old !! I'm also 18 but I know responsibilities and how to take proper care of myself !!

I was Washington my clothes this morning (whites) and I saw a pair of her underwear in the dirty clothes basket . I was looking at them trying to figure out if I could wash them with my whites bc they had a little hit of light blue on them but the majority was white .

They were really gross . There was brown alll In the crotch area , i saw something in there that looked clumped up , so I looked closer bc I was a little worried . Bc she told me she had an yeast infection and also had another bacterial infection as of like 2 days ago

So as i'm looking closer I notice that the white clumps I saw were maggots!!! MAGGOTS !!! Thats literally the nastiest thing I've ever seen in my life . Should I tell her about this ? I know she's just gonna get embarrassed and I don't want to be the one embarrass her like that , but I know she'd probably rather me tell her than her brother ... ugh

UPDATE : the question wasn't exactly if I was going to ask her or not 😂 it was how should I tell her . I've never had to have this talk with anyone , especially someone who isn't related to me !never picked them up with my hands ! And yes I washed her clothes bc they're in my house and if I want my house clean it's my responsibility 😂🤦🏽‍♀️ i told her ! I told her mom & her brother (my boyfriend ) that I was not okay with this

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2 DAYS ago I went and picked up a close friend of mine from another city which was like a 2 hour drive from my grandparents. she called me crying saying she wanted to come back home etc. I felt bad so went and got her.we got back late that I was so dark in the car to see anything but she ended up leaving like 2 small bags of clothes. I noticed our brand new car had a weird smell to it and Somme random

mysterious liquids everywhere so we went to clean the car out her clothes smelled horrible. my boyfriend picked up a pair of her underwear by accident and they were super gross . and I picked up another pair of her under wear and guess what? MAGGOTS !!!! EW my boyfriend about had a heart attack. we immediately took her clothes to her house and I didn't answer go through another long talk about hygiene. so I just handed them to her in a bag and said " please make sure you wash these " she said "yeah I know they dirty" and I left it at that