my last pregnancy I ended up going into DIC and ultimately delivered my daughter by emergency c section at 32 weeks. Doctors did not have much hope on my survival. they gave me a 10% chance and told my family to come say goodbye. i had an extremley stressful pregnancy and this one is looking to be stressful as well. i am in a complicated relationship and it will likely stay that way for quite a while. (thays a whole other issue) 5 1/2 years later I am 12 weeks and have not told my family. I know they are going to be very negative about it. I know I am going to have to tell them eventually....obviously but I am very anxious about it. I have my second u/s and doctor appt on Friday. Does anyone have any ideas on announcing to a family that won't take this well??