I recently started dating this guy and he is absolutely amazing but there's one issue..... I don't feel like we are pleasing each other. I mean there are some good moments like when we foreplay and give oral but after that it's horrible. I've had amazing sex before with other guys where the real freak in me was awoken but with him I feel like a nun sneaking to catch some for the first time. I really like this guy and so does my family and I don't want to lose him over something that I think can be solved. What should I do to spice up our sex life😭😭