Sex & Bleeding

Ladies!! Should I be concerned?? When I first had sex I didn't bleed at all. And now after a couple of years or being sexually active, I started bleeding!! It's not my period, I know it's not. Lol and after I bled the first time, a couple days after I had sex again and I was bleeding!! Today my fiancé and I wanna get some but when he started fingering me I started to bleed again....what the hell is going on. 😒