"First" Christmas 🤔

Desireé • Gabriel 💙 / Twins 🤰🏻 2018

So my LO was 2 weeks old last Christmas , I stayed home still recovering from my stitches inside of my 🙊 lady part (tough labor). So we're celebrating Christmas big this year since the whole family will be together finally. (My hubby was deployed) my in laws think I'm being cheap because I'm only giving my LO 4 gifts all together (2 for bday & 2 for Christmas) he'll be one and he won't even remember anything besides old pictures in the future so I was going get bags and paper for him to play in. Like am I wrong ?? What one year old needs a entire Christmas tree filled with gift ? I'm highly frustrated with the negative comments I'm getting from family 😐😐