I feel like I'm losing him... or that hes losing me

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, had our ups and downs and have gotten through the hardest of things. He's having his first semester at college, im a senior at the same place (he transferred were the same age). He's very independent and has seemed to take certain things for granted and I'm not feeling like I'm getting what I need from him. We've talked multiple times and he's told me that he appreciates me and loves me more than anything but I only see him at night and he never texts back.

I don't want to lose him but I feel like I am. I want more effort from him cause I'm the one fading away.

Any advice? I want to fight for him.