Facial ointment??

I have always had break outs since my senior year in high school (2012-2013) they usually pop up around the time aunt flow comes, but my face can never catch a damn break! Once af over I try to let that breakout heal and go away but by the time af comes again there are more, and the previous break out hasn't even came close to healing or going away! For my face wash routine I use a gentle soap or dial antibacterial soap, then use acv (apple cider vinegar w/ water) as a toner, then use coconut oil as my moisturizer...but lately my face has been soooo red I don't understand and I don't know what other things I should try?! I have literally tried everything! I tried proactive didn't do shit, went to a fucking dermatologist and he said "well if I knew the cure I'd own my own island hahahaha" 😒 and that I'd probably have this issue until I'm in my 30's, but he gave me an oral medicine and an ointment also didn't do shit

In these pics I just got out of the bath and did my skin care routine just a few minutes ago