When will he love me?

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My bf and I have been together for almost a year now. I spilled the L word pretty early on. He didn't reciprocate. Said he needed time. It's been 11 months. How much longer should I hold on for? Honestly it's tearing me up and my feelings for him are diminishing because I feel like we are not advancing in our relationship.

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Girl I'd give him until exactly one year and then I'd be gone.

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He would know after this long of spending time with you if he loves you or not. If he hasn't said it, it might take you leaving for him to actually realize it.

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I think after this long he should know if he loves you or not

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Everyone is different and not everyone is good with words.
Give him a little more time.
But as long as he treats you right and shows you he loves you in the meantime.

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A year is a long time. He should know by now. If he doesn't know then he doesn't love you

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I'm in the exact situation girl!

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It was almost two years before my boyfriend or I said it to each other. Even though we knew before that, we didn't need to say it because actions speak louder than words. Good luck💕

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I'd be pretty worried at this point. It's different for everyone, but statistically guys tend to say it first. do what feels right to you, but if you don't feel like he reciprocates your feelings, it's okay to tell him that.

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I'd be definitely concerned he hasn't said it yet tbh

When will he love me?

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