so what ive been doing has worked for me so far. im also a ftm so what i think is best may not necessarily be right. what my doc says she reads in articles im skeptical about sometimes. are there certain circumstamces that you tune out what your doc says and stick with your intuition or do you stay with what your doc says all the time? for example.. my doc says when i get home and my son falls asleep in his car seat to immediately put him in his crib or bassinet. I believe that when i take him out, hes going to wake up so i keep him in his car seat until he wakes up.