So, when should I be Ovulating? Should we start having sex now? Should we have it once a day, twice a day, every other day?? We had a miscarriage not to long ago and it's really hitting us hard. I have a 5 months old daughter and we want her to be at least 1 year before we give birth to another (technically I give birth, but whatever). Any suggestions? How do I spice it up? Make it feel like we aren't having sex for another, but for it to be for one another as well? If that makes any sense.