being told you shouldnt want more

i have been told a few times that i shouldnt want more kids. i have 4 wonderful boys fapr and me and my husband want to have one together. we on August 4 i had a MC and i had people tell me i shouldnt be trying or i have 2 many already...or the worst... maybe your body is trying to tell you not to have anymore. :'( It would be my husbands first Bio child. yes he loves my kids but he really wants one of his own.... im just so tired of people telling me to give up