I am going to give the shortest version possible, as it can actually be quite the long story. Almost a year ago, i found out that my husband had an affair with another woman while i was at work. No sex, he just took her on a date ( technicalities, idc, i can call it an affair, and a betrayal of my trust). I left with my daughter to live with my mom, and we were seperated for about 6 weeks. Well we decided to work on our marriage. For the next 8

throw away my family, we moved onto marriage counseling. because something is obviously messed up. Well fast forward through about a month of marriage counseling, i was reading his facebook messages between him and an old coworker. Hid coworker started talking about this other woman, ( who i forbid my husband to talk to or end of marriage) welp his coworker proceeded to tell him that she was a hoe and ended up sleeping with her roomates boyfriend. to which my boyfriend responded " i know, so&so; told me". AM I PETTY FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO GIVE THIS UP. Can i be mad at him for keeping tabs on this girl? im not sure if his other friends are purposely updating my husband on her status. Or if he is asking for tabs on her. SHOULD I BE MAD? Am i completely idiotic for letting the marriage drag on?