It's a little itchy down there

Zoe

And by a little, I mean a lot. I try to let it grow out, and it just gets worse, but when I shave, I get more ingrown hairs than I know what to do with, or at least I think they're ingrown. Either way, has anyone else experienced this? It's not crabs, I don't have lice or bed bugs. I don't know what to so anymore! It's been weeks now, I shave with the grain, not against. What else can I do?