Sex toys??
My boyfriend and I haven't been together that long.
But, we live together. (long story)
Anyways, today I had a conversation with him..
Me: I want to buy sex toys.
Him: Why?
Me: So, that when you're asleep or at work I can get off.
Him: Why would you need to do that?
Me: I don't know, just when I get horny.
Him: Am I not enough for you?
Me: No, you are but what about when you're not around?
Him: You could just wait for me. 🙄
Me: Well, I could also use them to practice giving blowjobs since I'm bad at them and maybe even practice riding??
Him: Using a toy, you put in you?
Me: After cleaning them of course.
Then the conversation basically ended. I've never used toys before, never watched porn.
And I have a low sex drive, but I feel like maybe if I get toys it could enhance my sex drive because, it'll help me figure out what more I like without fearing judgment (I know he won't but, anxiety makes me think he will.)
Plus, I feel as if it may benefit our sex life!!
Do you guys have any tips? At all of what I can do about talking to him or just any advice in general.
My fingers are not enough.
Our shower head isn't removable.
I need/want toys!
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