No condom. Should I do it? 💦

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So my bf and I (im 19 and he's 20) always use condom during sex and yesterday he told me he wants to try without condom just for a few poundings and he'll put the condom.
But since I'm not on birth control this worries me as I don't wanna get pregnant. I told him I'd rather be too cautious than risking it for a few seconds.
He said it'll be quick because he wants to "feel me" and it won't get me pregnant. Should I give it a try?

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Honestly, if you really feel like doing it unprotected you should like picture yourself even if it may not happen... "what if I get pregnant by him? Is he the one? Will he responsible and step up to the plate with me, or do I even want to have a family?" Because every time you have unprotected sex, its like a small chance of all that happening. It isn't wrong to have unprotected sex if you both love each other and are really serious, you know? If you are serious you can track when you're fertile and are ovulating that way it's less risky if you are having sex with him. If you aren't that serious then no I wouldn't risk it. You're young though so maybe you should say no you ain't the one I'm not giving it to you raw! If you don't like it then byeee 😭 it's the truth though

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Since you don't want to get pregnant...I vote against it.

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yea no, even if he's persistent. I wouldn't. Honey don't feel as though you are obligated to do that. You can say NO AND if he can't get that through his thick skull then he's not the one. It's your body girl.😉😊

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absolutely not

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'I don't wanna get pregnant'. 
That's your answer. What's the point in risking pregnancy for something that hasn't been proven to feel better? If you don't want to get pregnant then do not risk it, trust me it is not worth it. Maybe when you feel you are ready to handle the responsibility that comes with a child, then you can do what you want when it comes to sex. 
However, you put 'I don't want to get pregnant', so I would say that, for right now, you should definitely not risk it and be as safe as you possible can - because in the long run you will be wishing that you did. Trust me.  Xx

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Definitely not if you're not on BC or wanting to fall pregnant. Far too risky. Guys always say "I'll pull out" but in reality? Nope. My husband says it's like going from a $1000 car, to a $1000000 car, would you really expect him to want to go back to that $1000 car after hitting the jackpot? 
If it's something you're open too, why don't you see about birth control?

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Only do it if you are comfortable! Think about the pros and cons as well; pros are you and your bf get on another level of close by actually FEELING each other but also pre cum has sperm in it and even if he doesn't ejaculate inside you, you could still get pregnant

No condom. Should I do it? 💦

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