Ingrown hair?? 🤦‍♀️

So I'm pretty sure I have an ingrown hair on the outter lips of my vagina. It almost looks pimple like, I've never had one. And of course my first apt with the midwife is tomorrow (I'm 8 weeks/3days) 🙄 any quick cures to make the swelling go down or make it go away quickly? I'm currently soaking in the bathtub, hoping it helps.