presents

hey ladies i and my bf were talking about xmas being were gonna shop soon he gets oaid biweekly so he has about 6 checks left until xmas and 1 check each month is for bills.. he gets paid about 1200 with overtime. anyways my question is we were gonna get his son whos 12 a ipad clothes amd maybe another big present it will equal out to ab 10 presents same with hia daughter shes 9.. we have 1 yr old. and his parents go all out for the kids plus my parents get his kids some things plus his brother and sister get the kids things plus their mom... so it equals out to about 50 presents from everyone for each kid... now my bf thinks they all should get the same amount from us do u think so or?? if i and my bf get them 10 presents a piece (the older kids ) my mom gets them 2 presents (not her grandkids by blood but she does wat she can) my bf mom say 8 a piece his sister and brother 3-4 presents a piece plus 10-11 from their mom also so that's like round ab 33 presents ..Plz no bashing