sucking dick on the first date

hi this guy i've been talking to came over to my house and we hung out for a little bit and he wanted me to suck his dick so i did it for a little bit (wasn't the first time i've sucked a dick) now i feel like a huge hoe but at the same time i don't really feel bad about it? i hate the whole idea of slutshaming but i just feel like my idea of what's okay and boundaries are more lax than other people's and that's what makes me feel shitty ): but with my ex i was always horny and i always wanted to do whatever would make him happy but he never really asked me to do anything. but this guy asks me to do stuff (he's big on consent like he asks if everything is okay) i just didn't want to say no and i'm not sure if i'm that into him. it just doesn't feel the same as it did with my ex.